Hello Ardith,   
      
   On Thu 2039-Feb-24 23:52, Ardith Hinton (1:153/716) wrote to Richard Webb:   
      
      
   RW> INdeed, and a friend of mine went in with much the same   
   RW> approach, he was a music major instead of pedagogy, but   
   RW> fell into teaching.   
      
   RW> This lady's daughter was one of his pupils and sang his   
   RW> praises for getting the kids actually interested in   
   RW> learning about music.   
      
      
   AH> I know many others who "fell into" teaching, as your   
   AH> friend did, and turned out to be very good at it. If he really   
   AH> enjoyed learning about music & working with kids, his enthusiasm was   
   AH> probably contagious.... :-)    
      
   TOm was definitely a people person, and enthusiastic about   
   music. He didn't fit with the administration real well   
   however, hence he went back to doing carpentry and playing   
   what gigs he could find.   
      
      
   RW> I play three or four instruments well enough, but I'm   
   RW> not suited to teaching well. I don't have the patience   
   RW> for it, and part of that patience is an impatience with   
   RW> myself if I"M not getting an important concept through   
   RW> to a pupil.   
      
      
   AH> IMHO you have the right instincts! Years ago I remarked   
   AH> to a friend that I couldn't always be sure whether a particular   
   AH> feeling originated from me or the person(s) I was with. She doubted   
   AH> my sanity. But shortly thereafter I found a book written for   
   AH> teachers which said basically what you've said. If a student   
   AH> appears to be discouraged, bored, impatient etc. they may be   
   AH> mirroring what they believe they're seeing in *us*... and vice   
   AH> versa. The onus on us as teachers is to recognize what's happening   
   AH> & make appropriate adjustments.    
      
   Indeed, and I do better with that elsewhere.   
      
   LIked your example, trying to describe sensuous to your   
   class .   
      
   RW> A friend of mine however says I'm a very thorough and   
   RW> patient teacher, but that was in another subject, not the   
   RW> music. I"ve come to the conclusion that maybe I can teach   
   RW> radio theory, or radio operating techniques, etc. but just   
   RW> am not temperamentally suited to teaching music. THat fits   
   RW> too, as I'm the guy who will walk out on a bad performance,   
   RW> or a musician failing to tune his instrument properly.   
      
   AH> When we were younger, Dallas & I often heard somebody's   
   AH> fridge or TV whistling at a very high frequency and level of   
   AH> dissonance. We'd ask "How can you stand that whistle?"... to which   
   AH> the reply was invariably "What whistle??" People who live and/or   
   AH> work in a noisy environment... including music teachers ... tend to   
   AH> become hard of hearing in later years. Because you have little or   
   AH> no useful vision I imagine you depend a great deal on hearing to   
   AH> find your way around in strange places & cross roads safely as well   
   AH> as to earn a living. If you get positive feedback with regard to   
   AH> another subject area, what I see is a thorough & patient teacher   
   AH> with a healthy sense of self-preservation.... :-))    
      
   OF course, I just can't do bad sound. IN fact, my lady will tell you one of   
   my major things is "life's too short for bad sound." IF you can't sing,   
   don't! IF you can't play the   
   violin, please put the violin down.   
      
   Funny thing about ambient sounds, refrigerators etc. I'm   
   always noticing that stuff too. Also, thanks to too many   
   years in loud environments, both musically and otherwise   
   I've a bit of tinitis that often gives me the internal ringy dingy as well.    
   Last couple days I"ve been doing the   
   bachelor thing, lady is hospitalized, and that means her   
   oxygen concentrator isn't running 24/7 in the other room.   
   IT's funny how just that one device not operating has   
   lowered the ambient noise floor around here. Now it's down   
   to the refrigerator, the chest freezer, two computer fans   
   and a 12 volt dc 60 amp supply's cooling fans.   
   Even when teaching other than musical subjects I prefer to   
   do the one on one thing.   
      
      
   Regards,   
    Richard   
   --- timEd 1.10.y2k+   
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