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   > CP wrote --   
   >> Tough going for the guys dating today & the most popular music(lyrics) isn't   
   > helping the situation for any age group's music.   
   > I wouldn't want to be a young person in today's society.   
   > You have a group of women who claim "assault" and "hostile environment"   
   > if a guy looks at them the wrong way.  (And it seems "the wrong way" changes   
   > everyday.   
      
   Yup; true story: s guy was charged with assault, because he, as a form of    
   flirting, whistled at a girl & she called the cops.   
      
   The facts were laod out: it was the first & only time hje had one so (if   
   she'd  requested he stop, yet he continued, she might feel threatened then, by   
   his  unwilingness rto respect her clearly communicated boundaries) & I have no   
   beef  with that, should a court find it to be such.   
      
   > In nature wildly coloured animals (feathers, markings, etc) mean they are   
   > dangerous and stay away.  Like some groups of people today.  At least some   
   > of them give warnings.   
      
   People(Loony lefties, as opposed to normal ones) sya it's unfair to   
   snap-judge  a concern for young people dressed a certain way, with tattoos &   
   piercings.   
      
   I don't act on it, but I certainly do have a bit more concern for them than   
   for the Mormons walking towards me in their shiny shirts & pants!   
      
   The guys who asre all about putting ntches on their bed post should be aware    
   that some women might just change their mind after the seduction has been    
   agreed to & begun, & have him charged with rape.   
      
   My advice is to get to know a lady first, so you can have a certain amount of    
   trust in her not to be a jackass game-player.   
      
   One comic's answer to women who complain about guys judging their   
   skimpy/wanton clothing was to ask if it'd be reasonable to expect help from   
   someone in a cop  uniform?  What if he was not a copy,. but jusdt wearing the   
   uniform of one?   
      
   "Okay, I'll stipulate you're not necessarily a slut, but you are certainly    
   wearing the uniform of one!"  (the audience, men & women alike, roared!)   
      
   >>To ALL: What;'s been your experience with changing mores relating to dating &   
   > relationships?   
   > I've been out of the dating scene for years and no intention to start   
   > again.  So other than  the above, I have no comment at this tie. :)   
      
   Same, but I remember enough. If U were to be vback in it'd be as a widow, &   
   I'm given tyo understand things are easier for such than for the younguns   
   coming  out of college, or still in.   
      
   Seriously, I signed up for a dating site a ways back & I entered my info &   
   was  directed straight to the Seniors' Page! (for 40+); I was 39!   
      
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