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   Richard Webb to Lee Lofaso   
   Whitney Houson R.I.P   
   18 Feb 12 18:48:36   
   
   Hello LEe,   
      
   On Sat 2012-Feb-18 04:09, Lee Lofaso (2:203/2) wrote to Richard Webb:   
      
      
      
    RW> IN many ways all too true unfortunately, but for somethe   
    RW> profession is truly a labor of love, but they're not as   
    RW> prolific as the money machine would like, because they only   
    RW> present their creations to the world when they're up to the   
    RW> standards of the writer/creator.   
      
   LL> Music is like any other business.  Successful musicians know this.   
   LL> Some musicians are excellent performers.  Others not.  And music is   
   LL> so much more than performing.   
      
   Indeed, and that's the part we don't bother to teach our   
   talented young people.   
      
   LL> Separate the business of music from the art of music.  And then it   
   LL> is much easier to understand.  The art of music is indeed a "labor   
   LL> of love".  Not so much the business of music, which is always about   
   LL> profit.  Big difference.   
      
   Right, which is where most of the trouble comes in.  I enjoy writing, I enjoy   
   playing, I am happiest when I'm either   
   performing by myself, or with people who are excellent   
   musicians.  I'll probably never be the front person, even   
   performing my own songs however, because I don't do the   
   schmooze thing real well.   
      
   LL> In our society, we place a premium on youth.  We expect our   
   LL> entertainers to be young and full of energy.  Even though our   
   LL> population continues to age.  Whitney Houston was 48 years old at   
   LL> the time of her death.  She could no longer hit the high   
   LL> notes as she could in the days of her youth.  Nor did she have the   
   LL> same energy level.  Sure, she could use cosmetics and pretty herself   
   LL> up to the point of maintaining a youthful look, but she was far from   
   LL> being the self she was in her late teens and early 20's.   
      
   This is true, and the real trouble was the people she   
   surrounded herself with.  Your example of the cruise line   
   you turned down is a perfect example.  ONE has to be very   
   careful.   
      
      
      
      
    RW>> Indeed, bt you can't blame these professions for all   
    RW>> of this. Those who have a long career soon learn   
    RW>> perspective. IT's easy to "burn out" because of all   
    RW>> the pressure one puts on oneself as well as that put   
    RW>> on one by others. Yet you look at people like MErle   
    RW>> Haggard, a man who probably wasn't expected to see his   
    RW>> sixties, let alone his seventies. YEt MErle is still   
    RW>> making music, still writing and producing his songs.   
      
    ak>> Well, any rule, as a rule, has exceptions. ;) But if we   
    ak>> talk of the rule or the general tendency in this area - we   
    ak>> see it clear - almost all modern show biz stars have   
    ak>> severe problems inside themselves, and cannot enjoy life   
    ak>> as normal people.   
      
    RW> Right, but these are often the "show biz" stars, and not   
    RW> the people who write and create because it's what they do.   
    RW> Again from the country world, look at Willie Nelson.  Has   
    RW> been writing songs since he was a teenager.   
      
   LL> Most performers do not write their own stuff.  But some do.   
   LL> Madonna is an example of a musician who does.  Lady Gaga also does   
   LL> the same, and really is genius with some of her music.   
   LL> Kenny Rogers writes some, but not all, of the songs he performs in   
   LL> public, one of his biggest hits - "The Gambler" - having   
   LL> been written by himself in fifteen minutes.   
      
   Indeed, but then one needs to be very careful about their   
   management, etc. or at least learn more about the business   
   of the business.   
      
   AGain, you cited the example of Elvis.  Elvis's management   
   was as responsible for Elvis's untimely death and burn out   
   as was anybody.  As you say, he was trying to maintain a   
   lifestyle, but most important in the decisions that were   
   made re his career was the fattening ot Colonel Tom's   
   wallet.  Colonel TOm and people like him are to be anything   
   but admired imho.   
      
   LL> Elvis Presley had no choice, wanting to maintain Graceland.   
   LL> Michael Jackson had no choice, wanting to maintain Neverland. Other   
   LL> musicians also felt they had no choice, wanting to   
   LL> maintain what possessions they had or the lifestyles they had.    
      
   YEs, and with different management they have been able to   
   maintain what they did have in a happier state of mind.   
   Maybe Elvis wouldn't have had a Graceland to maintain, but   
   imho Elvis might have been a much more fulfilled person, and remained the   
   entertainer he liked to be.   
      
      
   LL> I know a musician who went on to become an accountant, got   
   LL> sick of the accounting profession, and then for his own sanity went   
   LL> back to music.  Literally saved his own life.  :)   
      
   Yep, I know people like that too.  HE also chose carefully   
   those he worked with.  I don't join bands unless they play   
   jazz, and play very well.  I may help the metalheads or   
   punks produce their album, but I can leave the project   
   behind as soon as the tracks are recorded, adn move on.   
      
    RW> IN this case, Whitney was a talented singer, but she wasn't   
    RW> a songwriter, and did nothing else but sing the songs   
    RW> presented to her which were created by others.   
      
   LL> Nothing wrong with that.  Lots of musicians have done the same. Most   
   LL> musicians today perform the works of others.  Including the best   
   LL> professionals, not just amateurs.   
      
   Indeed, but there have to be other avenues of fulfillment,   
   and a person needs to tell the management types "NO I don't   
   think so."  There's a big difference between performing   
   somebody else's creation because you actually like it and   
   feel you want to perform it for your audience and being   
   handed something and told to do it because we need product   
   out there.  When working as a side man I'll play anything   
   you want me to play, so long as you're paying me, just let's perform it well.    
   But, when the gig's over and I've gotten   
   my pay I have other ways of getting enjoyment from life.   
   That might be sitting down at my piano when the gig's over   
   and writing a song, or helping out a missionary stationed in the jungle to get   
   a message to mom.  When accompanying the   
   singer I'm a craftsman, whether I'm playing bass drums or my primary   
   instrument, keyboards.   
      
    RW> She allowed the money machine to control her life, let her perception of   
    RW> herself be dictated by others, and all those others only gave her positive   
    RW> reinforcement when she was making them money.  IN other words,   
    RW> and this is going to offend some, Whitney was shallow, as are a lot of   
   LL> these   
    RW> glamorous people.   
      
   LL> I can't really say she was "shallow", having never met the woman. It   
   LL> seems to me more likely she was grasping for straws, trying to be   
   LL> someone she could never be.  In this case, the young woman she was   
   LL> once before.  She took her 18-year-old daughter to Los Angeles in   
   LL> order to show her off to her friends.  This was one week before the   
   LL> Grammy Awards.  That was unheard of, as most entertainers of her   
   LL> caliber would show up only a day or two before the awards show. Her   
   LL> handlers were with her, but Whitney made her own choices.  And yes,   
   LL> you are right, she was used by what you call "the money machine".   
   LL> They knew what they wanted, and they knew how to get it.    
   LL> Unfortunately for them, and for Whitney, their money bag is no   
   LL> longer available.    
      
   Difference in definition i guess.  i call such people   
   shallow.  They will let others dictate to them what's valid   
   and waht isn't, and define them however they choose.  IF not shallow, one   
   thing you can say is that she was needy, needy   
   of that validation by others.  There are folks in this world that haven't   
   learned to like themselves as people, and often when those folks have that   
   sort of talent that validation by others is as strong a drug as is cocaine or   
   heroin.  They   
   need that validation by others.   
      
    RW> HEre's another one, JOhn Lennon.  Until he was gunned down   
    RW> on the street in front of his apartment building JOhn was   
    RW> growing, developing, and coming to grips with it all.   
      
   LL> After he left England for what he thought was a better place.    
      
   xTrue, and, as you say, he left England because of his   
   relationship with Yoko.  John knew who he was, knew what was important to him.   
   LL> We have been trained to like certain kinds or styles of music. If we   
   LL> hear a different kind of music, we call it trash.   
   LL> Even though it is music par excellence.   
      
   INdeed, and I've expanded my horizons more than once in my   
   life.  NO matter how hard I try though i just can't grab   
   hold of hip hop.  IN fact, I've turned down hip hop projects when I was   
   operating a regular studio, unless somebody else   
   was producing, because I have no appreciation for the genre. iF somebody else   
   was producing and all I had to handle was   
   the engineering then I was fine with it, but i find it   
   aesthetically unpleasant, I can't make value judgments on   
   what's good and what's not in that world, so I don't try.   
    RW> AGain, Whitney was not a writer, was not her own producer.  Whitney may   
   LL> have   
    RW> been a good singer, but that's >all she was.   
      
   LL> So much more talented is Madonna.  And Lady Gaga.  :)   
      
   True, and that's why a better understanding of the business, and a careful   
   choice of management and other personnel was   
   so important for her, and is for people like her.  Again,   
   Elvis and Colonel Tom.  Colonel Tom made decisions that were in the long run   
   good for the cash flow, but bad for Elvis.   
      
    RW> This is why I give so little attention to most "celebrites" and the like.   
    RW> These are usually people with no character, and little class.   
      
   LL> But what a great voice she had!  Much better than yours, I dare say!   
      
   I sing mostly blues and folk stuff, my own writing.  A great voice isn't   
   something i was blessed with, my talent is as a   
   multi instrumentalist .  my point is that people with   
   multiple talents have it easier when resisting those who   
   would be detrimental to them in the name of making a dollar.   
      
    RW> As both a sound person, and as a musician for hire I've worked for  a good   
    RW> number of folks that perceived themselves as 'stars" even if they weren't   
    RW> really.  ONe can usually tell if this is a person with some depth of   
    RW> character within the first few minutes of encountering them.  Those with   
    RW> character treat their support personnel with dignity   
    RW> and respect.  The others don't.   
      
   LL> I've run across some singers who looked upon themselves as   
   LL> being a real "diva" when they really had no talent at all.   
   LL> One young lady was so pretentious and so much into herself   
   LL> that I walked out and let her sing a cappella.  That kind   
   LL> of brought her down to earth, but still left her without   
   LL> a pianist.  :)   
      
     Been in that situation myself.   
      
      
    RW> Yes, but there again, from the support side, it's easy to   
    RW> tell which sort of person I'm dealing with as soon as I   
    RW> arrive.  Those with class and depth of character understand   
    RW> that we are partners in their presentation to the audience,   
    RW> yes i need them to perform to get paid, but they need people like me to do   
    RW> what they do.   
      
   LL> If you guess wrong, it can be costly.  For example, I was   
   LL> offered a gig on a cruise line some time ago.  But I suspected a   
   LL> rat, having met with the people in charge of the operation. I turned   
   LL> the offer down, and glad I did.  Two weeks later   
   LL> headlines in the paper read a drug raid on cruise ship...   
      
   Indeed, but if you've got management people making those   
   decisions for you and you don't have the ability to handle   
   such things yourself then you can find yourself in some   
   pretty hairy situations.   
      
    Right, and these folks are pushed, often from childhood to   
    RW> believe that they are something extra special and that   
    RW> attitude keeps them insulated from the parts of life that   
    RW> can ultimately make for better art, and keep them from   
    RW> developing as well rounded people.   
      
   LL> Whitney was a child prodigy, singing in the choir of her   
   LL> local church.  As a young woman, she auditioned for an agent, who   
   LL> signed her at once without delay to a contract.  That's   
   LL> the way it is with show biz.  Grab 'em when you can, as fast as you   
   LL> can, as cheap as you can.   
      
   This is exactly my point.  And, as with Colonel Tom, every   
   perceived need of the "star" will be met.  IT doesn't take   
   long until you are letting those around you make all your   
   decisions for you, and when it comes time for you to   
   critically think something through you don't have the   
   ability.  IT's similar to lying in bed for weeks and never   
   getting up.  Try using your legs then to walk across the   
   room!   
      
      
   Regards,   
              Richard   
   ... Everybody does better when everybody does better.   
   ---   
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