-=> Quoting Danny Ceppa to Nancy Backus on 05-23-06  07:36 <=-

 DC>> [comment on catty women deleted by Self Preservation Program]   
 DC>> I still need to find a way to hide that comment line...  

 NB>> Yeah, right...  

 NB>> Nothing at all catty about my remarks, though...  Just an observation,
 NB>> from years of watching...  :)   But perhaps we are operating on
 NB>> different ideas of what minding one's own business might mean...?

 DC> Nah, it was just a SA comment on my part!  
 
Ah, ok, then...  Kinda what I thought...  but one learns to be
careful... kinda...  

 NB> Jumping in on a thread, of course, is expected, and not a case of NOT
 NB> minding one's own business...  :)   Making snide remarks, especially
 NB> when done nastily and not in gentle fun, and casting aspersions for
 NB> real, etc, however are not minding one's business... and happen far

 DC> They can go overboard if one is not careful.  
 
Exactly...  and why I tend to ignore that sort of thread, as I've seen
them go overboard far too often... :)

 NB> too often in echos that should have been "safe".  (And my remark of
 NB> some places more than others was more a compliment for here, and a lack
 NB> of compliment for one in particular that I lurk in and never will do
 NB> more than lurk....)
 DC> 
 DC> A lot has to do with the dilligence of the moderator.  

Yup....  and/or the perceived presence/absence of said moderator in an
official capacity....

ttyl         neb

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