Hello Ruben,   
      
   > # I would submit that what is important    
   > # that they know and believe that regardless of their decision that you as a   
   > # parent will be there for them if needed. Children seem to learn best by    
   > # doing. Regardless of the outcome of that doing process.   
      
   > I suspect that you are right, it is what I've been thinking, but it is   
   > hard as hell to get out of this protective mode I've been in for a very   
   > long time.  Thanks.   
      
   Trust me... A parent never really gets out of that protective mode. My kids   
   are grown and parents themselves. And I still feel the urge to try to protect   
   them.   
      
      
      
   Jeff   
      
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