-=> Quoting Ruben Figueroa to Ancy Backus on 09-05-18  00:00 <=-   
      
    RF> # Is she living at home still...?   
    RF> # Lots of things can play into situations like this... my son finally   
    RF> # figured out how to manage his money better when he was off on his   
    RF> # own... but sometimes that doesn't work, either...   
    RF>    
    RF> She is now, she was managing her money with her room mate to pay for   
    RF> food and other stuff, not sure how much she contributed to that   
    RF> situation.  Now I have encouraged her to put away funds for when she   
    RF> will need them instead of willy nilly spending.  But like someone else   
    RF> already stated the best lessons learned are those you learn on your   
    RF> own.    
      
   That usually is the case.... One can't really dictate to adult children   
   what to do, one can only advise....  I've heard of parents that decided   
   to charge their adult child rent... and then put that into a savings   
   account for them for later.... but that wouldn't necessarily teach her   
   the real lesson of doing that for herself.... just be a form of enforced   
   savings... that she'd not know about until later....   
      
   ttyl      neb   
      
   ... Poetic justice is when your children have teenagers of their own.   
      
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