Re: Re: Daughter Advice   
     By: NANCY BACKUS to MICHAEL DEIG on Wed Apr 20 2016 09:35:00   
      
    > -=> Quoting Michael Deig to Ruben Figueroa on 04-10-16  13:17 <=-   
    >    
    > Another new voice heard from....  :)   It's great to see the flurry of   
    > activity...  :)   (No, I'm not the moderator, just a long-time   
    > "resident", and token Mom... [g])   
    >    
    >  MD> This sounds spot on to me also. Also be able and ready to answer any   
    >  MD> question that she might bring up as to why you have not been in contact   
    >  MD> with her. But at the same time be very careful of how you talk about   
    >  MD> people that has been in her life all this time if there are hurt   
    >  MD> feelings between them and you. Now is not the time for her to see or   
    >  MD> hear about them from you. This is the time for rebuilding between you   
    >  MD> and her and those feelings could hurt that if talked about to early.   
    >    
    > Good point.  :)  Better to leave old hurt feelings behind, and not have   
    > them confuse a new relationship being built...  Just like it's always   
    > best not to confuse a child by bringing up the hurts one has with the   
    > other parent, or play one against the other...  :)  Much better to (try,   
    > at least) keep things just to the relationship at hand.  :)   
    >    
    >  MD> Michael Deig   
    >  MD> Bufkin Ridge Ranch -Sysop   
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