-=> Quoting Michael Deig to Ruben Figueroa on 04-10-16  13:17 <=-   
      
   Another new voice heard from....  :)   It's great to see the flurry of   
   activity...  :)   (No, I'm not the moderator, just a long-time   
   "resident", and token Mom... [g])   
      
    MD> This sounds spot on to me also. Also be able and ready to answer any   
    MD> question that she might bring up as to why you have not been in contact   
    MD> with her. But at the same time be very careful of how you talk about   
    MD> people that has been in her life all this time if there are hurt   
    MD> feelings between them and you. Now is not the time for her to see or   
    MD> hear about them from you. This is the time for rebuilding between you   
    MD> and her and those feelings could hurt that if talked about to early.   
      
   Good point.  :)  Better to leave old hurt feelings behind, and not have   
   them confuse a new relationship being built...  Just like it's always   
   best not to confuse a child by bringing up the hurts one has with the   
   other parent, or play one against the other...  :)  Much better to (try,   
   at least) keep things just to the relationship at hand.  :)   
      
    MD> Michael Deig   
    MD> Bufkin Ridge Ranch -Sysop   
      
   Are you new to Fidonet (or newly returned)...?  I don't think I   
   recognize the names...  :)   
      
   ttyl         neb   
      
   ... Dew knot trussed your spiel chequer to find awl miss stakes.   
      
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