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   Nancy Backus to Damon A. Getsman   
   Re: Shinies and not-so shiny   
   17 Oct 15 18:53:52   
   
   -=> Quoting Damon A. Getsman to Nancy Backus on 14-Oct-2015 19:10 <=-   
    DAG> By: Nancy Backus to Damon A. Getsman on Thu Oct 01 2015 19:06:26   
       
    NB>> Quite so.  :)  Best we can do is try our best, and try to improve where   
    NB>> we find deficiencies, whether we find them ourselves or have them   
    NB>> pointed out to us....  :)   
    DAG> That is, actually, the basal requirement in my standards when I'm   
    DAG> considering anybody for a relationship more than just casual passing   
    DAG> friends.  I really don't care where exactly a person is at as far as   
    DAG> they're trying to get to some place better, as a person.  Well, there   
    DAG> are certainly some people trying to better themselves that are in   
    DAG> places where I wouldn't go with a ten foot pole, but I'm sure you catch   
    DAG> my gist.  ;)    
      
   Well, yeah... and there are some "betterings" that I'd not want to be a   
   part of, too...  ;)     
      
    NB>> As long as you get to it before she starts asking for feedback....    
    DAG> Oh that happened well over a year ago, when I was still back in   
    DAG> Minot, actually.  I don't think she's going to ask for it again.    
      
   Ah, so when you get a chance to finally read it completely, and then a   
   chance to actually talk to her about it, she can be pleasantly surprised   
   that you actually followed through on it... ;)   
      
    DAG> I'm getting my feet wet in getting outside to take care of things   
    DAG> I can't do in the apartment now, at least, so I should be hitting   
    DAG> that very soon.  Just as soon as I'm caught up with my paper   
    DAG> journaling, I suspect.    
      
   Progress, anyway...  :)   
      
    NB>> Sigh...  Probably no room to get a beanbag chair in there, for reading   
    NB>> and movie watching... ;)   
    DAG> Funny you should mention that...  My son had a bright pink one that   
    DAG> he absolutely loved for the longest time..  We just had to get rid of   
    DAG> it because one of the cats decided that it was too valuable of property   
    DAG> to pass up.  There actually is enough space for something like that,   
    DAG> though.  It just requires cleaning the bedding off of the futon and   
    DAG> folding that up.  I hadn't really thought about that, it's a good idea.   
    DAG> I'll see if I can't come up with something or maybe find out how much   
    DAG> a cheap beanbag may run.  I'm thinking more for reading, but I do have   
    DAG> some movies that I need to catch up on along with my son, too.    
    DAG> Utilizing the space in that way brings a bunch of new potential to the   
    DAG> situation.    
      
   Should help break the deadlock of not being able to do stuff... ;)   
      
    NB>> Now that's an idea....  or maybe go to the library...??   
    DAG> Well I've got to go return some books from my son's account within 3   
    DAG> days here, so that will be happening soon.    
      
   After all, one doesn't want to have to pay fines... ;)   
      
    DAG> The coffee shop idea worked very nicely   
    DAG> for me today, though.  There's a place that I can walk to   
    DAG> less than 4 blocks away and I really like the atmosphere there.    
    DAG> I suspect I'll be spending more time in that place soon.   
      
   Good... That's a good thing to have found... should help on more than   
   one level...  :)   
      
    NB>> No offense taken... I don't expect everyone to have the same perspective   
    NB>> as mine, but I also don't mind sharing my perspective... :)   
    DAG> Ditto that.  :)   
    NB>> As long as you don't take offense at my being open with my faith, we   
    NB>> should be fine...  :)   
    DAG> I enjoy discussion on all kinds of topics, and some of the ones that   
    DAG> people consider taboo can be some of the most interesting, when it's   
    DAG> undertaken with understanding, curiosity, and consideration.  Usually I   
    DAG> have spotted the ones that it's not safe to engage in discussion with   
    DAG> on such topics quite a ways away.  You seem safe to me.  :)   
      
   Then we should get along fine.. :)  I may not be totally "safe", but I   
   do try to be gentle in disagreement... ;)   
      
   ttyl        neb   
      
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