Re: Re: Shinies and not-so shiny   
     By: Nancy Backus to Damon A. Getsman on Thu Oct 01 2015 19:06:26   
      
    NB> Quite so.  :)  Best we can do is try our best, and try to improve where   
    NB> we find deficiencies, whether we find them ourselves or have them   
    NB> pointed out to us....  :)   
      
    That is, actually, the basal requirement in my standards when I'm considering   
   anybody for a relationship more than just casual passing friends.  I really   
   don't care where exactly a person is at as far as they're trying to get to some   
   place better, as a person.  Well, there are certainly some people trying to   
   better themselves that are in places where I wouldn't go with a ten foot pole,   
   but I'm sure you catch my gist.  ;)   
      
    NB> As long as you get to it before she starts asking for feedback....    
      
     Oh that happened well over a year ago, when I was still back in Minot,   
   actually.  I don't think she's going to ask for it again.  I'm getting my feet   
   wet in getting outside to take care of things I can't do in the apartment now,   
   at least, so I should be hitting that very soon.  Just as soon as I'm caught up   
   with my paper journaling, I suspect.   
      
    NB> Sigh...  Probably no room to get a beanbag chair in there, for reading   
    NB> and movie watching... ;)     
      
     Funny you should mention that...  My son had a bright pink one that he   
   absolutely loved for the longest time..  We just had to get rid of it because   
   one of the cats decided that it was too valuable of property to pass up.  There   
   actually is enough space for something like that, though.  It just requires   
   cleaning the bedding off of the futon and folding that up.  I hadn't really   
   thought about that, it's a good idea.  I'll see if I can't come up with   
   something or maybe find out how much a cheap beanbag may run.  I'm thinking   
   more for reading, but I do have some movies that I need to catch up on along   
   with my son, too.  Utilizing the space in that way brings a bunch of new   
   potential to the situation.   
      
    NB> Now that's an idea....  or maybe go to the library...??   
      
     Well I've got to go return some books from my son's account within 3 days   
   here, so that will be happening soon.  The coffee shop idea worked very nicely   
   for me today, though.  There's a place that I can walk to less than 4 blocks   
   away and I really like the atmosphere there.  I suspect I'll be spending more   
   time in that place soon.   
      
    NB> No offense taken... I don't expect everyone to have the same perspective   
    NB> as mine, but I also don't mind sharing my perspective... :)   
      
     Ditto that.  :)   
      
    NB> As long as you don't take offense at my being open with my faith, we   
    NB> should be fine...  :)   
      
     I enjoy discussion on all kinds of topics, and some of the ones that people   
   consider taboo can be some of the most interesting, when it's undertaken with   
   understanding, curiosity, and consideration.  Usually I have spotted the ones   
   that it's not safe to engage in discussion with on such topics quite a ways   
   away.  You seem safe to me.  :)   
      
    NB> Yup... we don't even always do all that we are capable of even in our   
    NB> not fully realized state.... with or without God...  :)   
      
     Got that right.   
     Moar soon.  :)   
      
     -D   
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