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   Nancy Backus to Damon A. Getsman   
   Aikido, kittie, etc   
   06 Aug 15 17:36:56   
   
   -=> Quoting Damon A. Getsman to Nancy Backus on 02-Aug-2015 07:01 <=-   
      
    DAG>> what he says).  Seems super friendly, really good with kids (with   
    DAG>> ones of his own, also), and I'm still planning on going with him.   
    DAG>> Still, I checked on all of the websites and everything.  Would've   
    DAG>> been really nice to have gotten that callback.   
    NB>> Sounds like someone worth giving the benefit of the doubt to... :)   
    DAG> Yeah well the bit that he's the only fulltime dude in Portland for   
    DAG> Aikido was enough for me.  The fact that he seems really great with   
    DAG> kids and has his own is the icing on the cake.  I was a little   
    DAG> disgruntled by the lack of a callback after 2 messages, but thinking   
    DAG> more about it, if he operates that dojo by himself, he could just be   
    DAG> too busy to get around to new students right away when he's got such a   
    DAG> huge chunk that he already trains with due to his niche's particular   
    DAG> sparsity right now.    
      
   Yeah... he probably has his time and his hands full...  :)  And it   
   sounds like, like my massage therapist, it's a one-person show...  Her   
   personal phone is her business phone, and there's nobody but herself to   
   handle phone calls, etc, along with the business itself... :)   
      
    DAG> I want to do it then and get him firmly established in it   
    DAG> before school starts, and to keep at least a little social life in   
    DAG> things for him up until the end of summer now.    
      
   And then, hopefully, the Aikido will continue into the school year...?   
      
    DAG> I can't believe how fast it's approaching.  Saw a good graph on tumblr   
    DAG> (yes I wasted some time there) the other day about how a year in a   
    DAG> life relates from birth until the older years.  The horror.  I know   
    DAG> we've talked about it before; just had to reiterate it again, though.    
    DAG> The horror.     
      
   Some things are just best not dwelt upon...     
      
    DAG>> Still recovering from that complete ragtag compression of all of my   
    DAG>> worldly goods into the different closets and under some pieces of   
    DAG>> furniture around here.   
    NB>> At least it's finally taken care of...  :)   
    DAG> Yeah the sink is still clear.  The recovery from it is not.  I need   
    DAG> floorspace to be able to organize everything that got stuffed away and   
    DAG> that's basically just not gonna happen here.  So I'm gonna have to   
    DAG> either take everything in really small chunks or else save faster for   
    DAG> just getting the hell out of here.  *grin*  We'll see which wins.    
    DAG> I've been having a lot of problems finding enough clean clothes for   
    DAG> myself and for my son since then, so I'll probably have to take the   
    DAG> little bites method, at least when D starts school again at the end of   
    DAG> this month.    
      
   Yeah... the bit at a time is probably a good strategy... can be done   
   sooner than later... and yup, you'll need to do something when the kid   
   goes back to school...  :)   
      
    DAG>>> I think I found another community center that we'll be able to   
    NB>> And.......???   ;)   
    DAG> Haven't been to it yet because of the summer school thing.  Going to   
    DAG> try to find out which one it is again (lost the reference in the   
    DAG> plethora) and hit there very soon here, though.  Thank you for   
    DAG> reminding me; I'm going to put a handwritten note here to make sure I   
    DAG> look that stuff up and don't forget about it again.  That way I'll see   
    DAG> it whether I'm chained to the computer or not.   
      
   And you'll be able to use the information later, even if it turns out   
   not to be needed at the moment...  :)  Or it might be just the thing to   
   get you both through the tail end of summer... :)   
      
    DAG> He's been good with summer school for the past week, though.  I just   
    DAG> wish they would've mentioned it was free for me so that he would've   
    DAG> gotten into it earlier instead of just for 1 week... With how isolated   
    DAG> his summer has been that would've been a total bonus.  I just thought   
    DAG> it was closed because of all the rennovation that they're doing at the   
    DAG> school before it reopens (the same work that closed the pool and the   
    DAG> playground that I was planning to primarily use for his outlets-- all   
    DAG> the same facility).    
      
   And now you know better... At least you found out in time to get one   
   week in... :)  And know that it can be an option for next summer if   
   needed... :)   
      
    NB>> Cats can be important safety valves...   
    DAG> Amen to that.  I miss my kittie a lot.  Can't wait for a place where   
    DAG> I can finally pick another one up.  I miss having my rattling furball   
    DAG> coiled up next to me when I'm trying to sleep.  The memories are a   
    DAG> little bittersweet, but still good ones.  It'd probably be pretty good   
    DAG> for Deschain, too.  That's a good thing, because the next cat we get is   
    DAG> his to train as a kitten.  ;)  Guess that means it has to wait for next   
    DAG> summer at least.  Maybe I can get a little tiny one I can hide in a   
    DAG> shirt pocket in the interim or something.  ;)    
      
   Or take in an adult cat and promise the kitten for next summer...  ;)    
   Or get a small stuffed animal or two in the interim, one for each of   
   you, perhaps... ;)   
      
   ttyl            neb   
      
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