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   Damon A. Getsman to Nancy Backus   
   Re: Aikido, kids activities, kittie   
   12 Jul 15 07:49:54   
   
     Re: Re: Aikido, kids activities, kittie   
     By: Nancy Backus to Damon A. Getsman on Mon Jun 29 2015 18:11:16   
      
    NB> Maybe he just assumed you'd know, or be able to find out from somewhere   
    NB> else... ;)   
      
     Yeah I'm trying to give the sensei the benefit of the doubt.  He seemed like   
   the friendliest one that I've met around here so far.  Plus he's the only   
   fulltime Aikido dude in Portland (at least from what he says).  Seems super   
   friendly, really good with kids (with ones of his own, also), and I'm still   
   planning on going with him.  Still, I checked on all of the websites and   
   everything.  Would've been really nice to have gotten that callback.   
      
    NB> Sink fixed now...?   
      
     Finally, praise be to all of the dieties that there may be.  There is still a   
   large amount of disarray where the kitchen was all torn apart to give them   
   access, and there was a hell of a scare that the landlord would appear to   
   micromanage things, as per his style, while the plumber was here.  The clot was   
   quite aways out, so it was definitely his responsibility, and didn't end up   
   coming out of our dime, but the stress...  Ugh.  Especially in having to hide   
   everything that made it look like there were too many tenants here.  Still   
   recovering from that complete ragtag compression of all of my worldly goods   
   into the different closets and under some pieces of furniture around here.   
      
    NB> Could just be super busy, or not too organized at the administration   
    NB> level, or his voicemail doesn't work right...  Sometimes in person works   
    NB> best for things anyway...  :)   
      
     Yeah.  Like I said, I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt.  I'm going to go   
   in and see him again tomorrow, when he's got a standard session, and just start   
   myself right away (if I can pull the cash together) and then probably get   
   Deschain started right away, too, or else maybe wait for the family session on   
   Sunday a week from today if he's more comfortable with that.   
      
    DAG>> be enough funds to make up whatever the plumber is going to cost   
    DAG>> us. It'd be really nice to be able to use the kitchen normally   
    DAG>> again, too.  :P    
    NB> Hopefully all fixed now...  :)   
      
     Yeah.  Just need to carve through the mountains of backlogged, and somewhat   
   toxic (due to NaOH), dishes and other cookwares.  Then I need a day when this   
   place is somewhat vacated to pull out all of my crap from the closets and the   
   other stash spots so that I can get it all staged again to be replanted in   
   areas where it'll stay folded and otherwise organized.  It was a pretty major   
   upset, having to hide 2/3 of the belongings in a 1 bedroom apartment occupied   
   by three people.  Wouldn't recommend it.  The kitchen, at least, is slowly   
   returning to functionality, though.   
      
    DAG>> I think I found another community center that we'll be able to   
    NB> Did that work out...?  Close enough to get to, and all...?   
      
     Didn't happen yet due to other crap.  I tried getting him out to some closer   
   locations and none of them worked out, so I've still definitely got to go   
   there.  In fact *puts reminder in calendar for tomorrow* now I won't forget.    
   )   
      
    NB> Sounds like a reasonable thing...  :)   And it doesn't hurt to have   
    NB> complementary skills when working on a project... I'm sure that you have   
    NB> some skills that he doesn't...  :)   
      
     Oh, I do.  It's always good when he points that out, also, because my own   
   insecurity on the issue of employment in this field really shoots me in the   
   foot sometimes.  It's hard to maintain that "I'm not worthy," mentality when I   
   find a bug that the experienced guy has been banging his head against the   
   cinderblocks with for a few hours after taking a brief glimpse at the code,   
   though.  ;)  We've got pretty complimentary  skill sets, and it's handy.    
   Unfortunately right now we're both down these coding rabbitholes that've got us   
   buried in the same stuff.  Then again, that means it's my time to learn.  He's   
   doing a little bit of double time teaching me what I'd forgotten about PHP and   
   learning all about the OO support that it added that I'd never learned before.    
   So I'm happy with it.  I'm just keeping my fingers crossed as far as his levels   
   of motivation staying up.  ;)   
      
    NB> Always helps to have someone not sick to take care of the others, too.. ;)   
      
     Sh!  Don't tell them I'm well!   
      
    NB> Preparation generally helps... but the loss still hurts when it's   
    NB> finalized...  Just because one knows what's coming down doesn't make one   
    NB> like it any more....  Sounds like you were fortunate to have the kitty   
    NB> for as long as you did, actually..  :)   
      
     I was, very much.  I certainly won't forget that.  I say it about several   
   different things, so maybe it comes across as just a cliche that I use   
   sometimes, but there are large chunks of my life where I don't know if I   
   would've been able to make it through without that cat (or his brother, before   
   his early loss).  I actually wrote up a whole series of messages on my local   
   boards about the different adventures that I had with those cats...  Maybe   
   sometime I'll cross post those to international, or something.  They're windy   
   and long, but I don't think that they're too badly written, and it goes into   
   serious depth on some of the different bits of history with them that I alluded   
   to in different messages over the months/years that I've been here.   
      
    NB> Understood...  and I'm slowly doing some catchup... maybe I'll be up to   
    NB> date before I take off for 2 weeks away from access to Fido... ;)  But   
    NB> as that's the end of this week, and things are still rather crazy, we'll   
    NB> just have to wait and see...  ;)   
      
     I had to take a little bit of time off as well.  Had a little med change that   
   hasn't been throwing me for one of my major loops, but it's made things a   
   little bit more stressful.  So basically, when I haven't been using the   
   computer for work lately, I've been spending a lot more time disconnected.    
   Trying to do more things with my son around here, too, since it seems like the   
   ones outdoors have, at least in the general vicinity, all been pre-sabotaged by   
   Loki.  :)  Good things to be doing though, I think.   
     Best wishes.   
      
     -D   
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