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   Survey says most Gen Z-ers would marry an AI, but I've got more faith in Gen    
   Z -- and AI should stay in the friend zone   
      
   Date:   
   Thu, 22 May 2025 16:15:22 +0000   
      
   Description:   
   An AI companion service's new survey says Gen Z would be okay with an AI   
   marriage -- but that's ridiculous, right?   
      
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   AI-lationships is the gag-inducing term Joi AI cooked up to support its    
   recent eye-opening survey on human-to-AI relationships. In it, eight out of    
   10 Gen Z respondents said they would consider marrying an AI partner.    
      
   Before we delve too much into this mind-bending stat, let's look at the   
   source. Joi AI, formerly EVA AI, is a premium online AI companion service    
   that offers a wide range of AI companion personalities, complete with   
   AI-generated imagery that can be, depending on settings and what you pay,   
   NSFW.    
      
   It's kind of a cheesy service that caters mostly, I think, to lonely men.    
   Now, don't get me wrong; I know there's a growing epidemic of loneliness. A   
   recent Harvard study found that 21% of US adults report some level of   
   loneliness (some studies suggest the number is far higher ).   
      
   Disconnection    
      
   Remote work, screen time, and other things that take us away from direct    
   human connection are probably not helping this trend, but AI has increasingly   
   stepped into the connection void with a growing army of voice chatbots that   
   can carry on surprisingly realistic and even empathetic-sounding   
   conversations.    
      
   And this is by design. Earlier this month, Meta CEO Mark Zuckerberg, whose   
   company is building powerful AI models, suggested we should all have AI   
   friends .    
      
   Marriage, then, is perhaps, the next logical extension.    
      
   The concept of deep, personal relationships between humans and artificial   
   intelligence traces back to well before we had Gemini Live , ChatGPT ,    
   Copilot , and others ready and willing to converse with us at length. The    
   2013 movie Her was built around the idea of a deeply personal (and    
   concerning) relationship between Joaquin Phoenix's character and Scarlett   
   Johansson's disembodied AI voice long before we could talk to a single AI in   
   real life.    
      
   I've had my share of AI conversations, and I find them entertaining and,   
   often, illuminating . I don't see them as personal, though. Perhaps that's   
   because I'm not lonely. The more desperate you are for human connection, the   
   more AI companionship might seem like a reasonable substitute.    
      
   But marriage? Meet-cute in the cloud    
      
   At least Joi AI adds static imagery to the playful banter you'll find through   
   its AI partners, but that's the exception and not the rule. Most generative    
   AI chatbots are just voices and undulating screens. You need images and,   
   ultimately, touch to make a genuine connection... don't you?    
      
   As I write this, I'm reminded that I met my wife through a phone call and    
   that I was enchanted, initially, by nothing but her voice and wit. But to   
   build our relationship and eventual union, we did date in person. Being with   
   her sealed the deal and made me want to marry her.    
      
   I don't understand why Joi AI's respondents, even Generation Z, who are much   
   more deeply immersed in technology, social media, and AI than any generation   
   before it, would accept an AI as a life mate. In the survey, though, they do   
   sound primed for AI connection, with 83% saying they "could build a deep   
   emotional bond with an AI partner."    
      
   One expert I spoke to via email, Dr. Sue Varma , a board-certified   
   psychiatrist and author of Practical Optimism , put it in perspective for me.   
   "At our core, we all want the same things: to be seen, to be heard, and to   
   feel valued  not judged or criticized. For Gen Z, that longing is especially   
   strong, and the loneliness theyre experiencing is very real. What they want,   
   what we all want, is meaningful, mutual human connection."   
      
   Would you consider marrying an AI?   
      
   Unconvinced that Joi AI's data points to a real trend (I did ask them for   
   survey details and have yet to receive a response), I ran a couple of   
   anecdotal surveys on X (formerly Twitter) and Threads . Across both, less    
   than 10% said yes, they would consider marrying an AI, roughly a third said    
   no on Threads, and the vast majority wondered if I was okay.    
      
   As preposterous as I find the whole idea of AI relationships and eventual   
   marriage, I also understand that we're at the start of a revolution. AI's   
   ability to mimic human language and even emotions is growing exponentially,   
   and there's already growing concern about human-to-AI relationships .    
      
   "Technologyand AI in particularisnt going away. Its going to keep evolving,   
   and yes, it may offer relationships that seem easy, even comforting. Think of   
   the always-affirming AI: the hype person, the yes-person, the one that never   
   challenges us and always tells us what we want to hear. Its seductive. But    
   its not real," said Dr. Varma , and added, "What we really need to be doing    
   is using AI to support our humanity, not replace it."    
      
   The latest Gemini and ChatGPT models provide incredibly human- and   
   expressive-sounding conversations. Some believe AIs have already beat the   
   Turing test (basically when a computer's response is indistinguishable from a   
   human's, at least as perceived by another human).    
      
   We will, in this decade, see humanoid robots equipped with these AIs, and   
   that's when things will get really weird. How long before some dude is   
   marrying his AI bot in Vegas?    
      
   Joi AI's self-serving survey is ridiculous on the face of it, even if it is   
   also a harbinger of AI relationships to come -- and I hope Gen Z swipes left   
   on the whole idea.   
      
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   Link to news story:   
   https://www.techradar.com/computing/artificial-intelligence/survey-says-most-g   
   en-z-would-marry-an-ai-but-ive-got-more-faith-in-gen-z-and-ai-should-stay-in-t   
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