AND THEN IT IS WINTER   
       
   You know... time has a way of moving quickly and  catching you unaware of the   
   passing years.   
   It seems just yesterday that I was young, just married and embarking on my new   
   life with my mate. Yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where   
   all the years went. I know that I lived them all. I have glimpses of how it   
   was back then and of all my hopes and dreams. But, here it is the winter of my   
   life and it catches me by surprise. How did I get here so fast? Where did the   
   years go and where did my youth go?   
       
   I remember well seeing older people through the years and thinking that those   
   older people were years away from me and that winter was so far off that I   
   could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like. But, here it is,   
   my friends are retired and getting grey; they move slower and I see an older   
   person now. Some are in better and some worse shape than me, but I see the   
   great change. Not like the ones that I remember who were young and vibrant,   
   but like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those older folks   
   that we used to see and never thought we'd be.   
       
   Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day!   
   And taking a nap is not a treat anymore -- it's mandatory! 'Cause if I don't   
   of my own free will, I just fall asleep where I sit!   
       
   And so now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all the   
   aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that   
   I wish I had done, but never did!   
       
   But, at least I know that though the winter has come, and I'm not sure how   
   long it will last; this I know, that when it's over on this Earth, it's NOT   
   over. A new adventure will begin!   
       
   Yes, I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn't done; things I should   
   have done, but indeed, there are many things I'm happy to have done. It's all   
   in a lifetime.   
       
   So, if you're not in your winter yet, let me remind you that it will be here   
   faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life   
   please do it quickly! Don't put things off too long!   
       
   Life goes by quickly. So, do what you can today, as you can never be sure   
   whether this is your winter or not! You have no promise that you will see all   
   the seasons of your life, so live for today and say all the things that you   
   want your loved ones to remember and hope that they appreciate and love you   
   for all the things that you have done for them in all the years past!   
       
   "Life" is a gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who   
   come after. Make it a fantastic one.   
       
   Live it well! Enjoy today! Do something fun! Be happy! Have a great day!   
       
   REMEMBER:   
       
   "It is health that is  real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver.   
       
   "Live happy in this year and every year!   
       
   LASTLY, CONSIDER THE FOLLOWING:   
       
   Today is the oldest you've ever been, Yet the youngest you'll ever be, so -   
   enjoy this day ehile it lasts.   
       
   ~Your kids are becoming you.   
       
   ~Going out is good. Coming home is better!   
       
   ~You forget names. But it's OK because other people forgot they even knew you!   
       
   ~You realize you're never going to be really good at anything, especially golf.   
       
   ~The things you used to care to do, you no longer care to do, but you really   
   do care that you don't care to do them anymore.   
       
   ~You sleep better on a lounge chair with the TV blaring than in bed. It's   
   called "pre-sleep".   
       
   ~You miss the days when everything worked with just an "ON" and "OFF" switch.   
       
   ~You tend to use more 4 letter words; "what?" "when?" "what?"   
       
   ~Now that you can afford expensive jewelry, it's not safe to wear it anywhere.   
      
   ~You notice everything they sell in stores is "sleeveless"!   
      
   ~What used to be freckles are now liver spots.   
      
   ~Everybody whispers.  (-:   
      
   ~You have 3 sizes of clothes in your closet: 2 of which you will never wear.   
      
   ~But old is good in some things: Old Songs, Old movies, and best of all, OLD   
   FRIENDS!   
        
       
   Regards,   
       
   Roger   
      
   --- D'Bridge 3.99   
    * Origin: NCS BBS - Houma, LoUiSiAna (1:3828/7)