> Hello Jan-Willem,    
      
   Hello Matthew! Sorry for the late reply   
      
   > I still read this newsgroup occasionally, but not very often. I'm   
   preoccupied with other matters right now, and have a very busy schedule. Also,   
   I have Aspergers, which impairs my organisation and time management.    
   >   
      
   I have the same problems here, I have perhaps also a kind of autism, I am   
   chaotic. I have forgotten to read this newsgroup often. That’s why my reply   
   is so late   
      
   > It's nice to see you again. I hope you are well. I didn't feel offended or   
   bothered by anything you said in email. I'm guessing that you have sometimes   
   been rejected by other people in social situations in the past, and that you   
   feel confused about why this is. So, you're left wondering what's OK to say   
   and what isn't. Social situations must feel like an invisible minefield to   
   you, and this must be a tough burden to live with. You are very brave and   
   strong to continue trying your best in the face of all this.    
   >   
      
   Thank you, and I am well and also happy to see you again, I no longer do the   
   job I really hate and despise; many years ago I have lost my job and I am one   
   extended sick leave ever since. I am doing voluntary work that gives me no   
   stress at all. So I am not so desperate any more and I am waiting with   
   patience for things to come…   
      
   > You don't need to feel so guilty and apologetic all the time. You're a good   
   person and you contribute positively to the world around you. You try your   
   best in the face of difficult circumstances that are beyond your control.   
   There are plenty of selfish jerks around, and you're not one of them. That   
   janitor you told me about seems like a nasty bully and a prize idiot.    
   >   
      
   I am no longer have to see him again.   
      
   Hey I have to go now. To be continued later on the day or night   
   --- SBBSecho 2.20-Win32   
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