From: tspnyc@hotmail.com 
  
 Here is the ad I recently came up with.  I do not know if we would be suited 
 for one another or not.  But I thought it worth a try. 
  
 Sorry for the length of this post.  But I am looking for someone as unique 
 as I am when it comes to certain things.  I know that being spanked is not 
 for every woman and even those who welcome it do not do so for the same 
 reasons as everyone else. 
  
 I am not for everyone, and everyone certainly isn't for me.  So, if you read 
 this and do not relate to what is said, please do not reply to explain that 
 or admonish me for my opinions or desires.  I am not looking to impose any 
 kind of lifestyle or values upon another person.  Rather, I am hoping to 
 find someone who is happy with who they are, but who happens to be like I 
 am, when it comes to male/female intimacy, even if they sometimes seem 
 outmoded for the modern world. 
  
 As to the basic boy meets girl things, I am a single, white male of Celtic 
 origins, living in the Northeast of the U.S. with a midwestern background, 
 but very open to the idea of relocating with or for the right woman.  I am 5 
 '10" on the slender side with short brown hair and eyes.  Be you from Sweden 
 or Japan, Irish or Indonesian, or just an American mutt like me, I am hoping 
 to meet and meld with a single woman of childbearing age who appreciates the 
 finer points of a good spanking as part of a genuine, romantic relationship. 
 I do not expect a relationship to automatically lead to marriage and Happily 
 Ever After.  However, I love kids, do not have any as of yet, and very much 
 hope to before too much longer.  But first things first.  I am too big a 
 believer in chemistry to leap into anything before its time.  I know such 
 things as commitment and children come after two people have had time to 
 merge their hearts and futures together.  Of course I want someone I am 
 attracted to and who is attracted to me.  I am not a man of large stature, 
 quite average in fact.  I simply do not tend to "fit" well with overly tall 
 or overly large women.  So if you are a runway model or a fuller-figured 
 gal, or do not have interest in the potential of a long-term relationship 
 you might as well stop reading now. 
  
 Here goes . . . 
  
 Good man seeks good girl for the Big Love.  Spanking-related discipline as 
 part of a romantic relationship entered my life in early college, when a 
 girlfriend introduced me to it.  I have enough experience to know there are 
 many different takes on this stuff. I am by no means a leather Master Bob 
 type "Dom".  But other than that, I have enough of the dominant, romantic 
 Rhett Butler in me with a healthy dose of paternal instinct to spank very 
 much for real when a woman relates to such things.  I feel the details of 
 such things are found in the connection between the two people and I base 
 such things very much upon what she relates to and her sensitivities to such 
 things.  I have spanked girls for procrastination or overspending, but I 
 know other women might find such things silly or even take offense to the 
 notion.  I have spanked to help a girl maintain discipline and for 
 punishment when a girl felt guilty about something she should not have done. 
 I have spanked out of sexual passion when the fires burned the brightest or 
 when someone was being frisky and playful.  That stuff is not the hard part, 
 as most spankable women relate to all that on some level.  But the deeper, 
 more personal stuff is another matter. 
  
 I have never taken well to genuine "brats" as I am myself a compassionate, 
 thoughtful person and I find it hard to admire someone who with a 
 self-absorbed nature or who derives pleasure from making other people 
 miserable.  But I do have a weakness for women who will always have a 
 sweet-natured, if mischievous girl in her heart.  I have always said it is 
 the man who admires and desires the woman, but the boy in the man who falls 
 in love with the girl in the woman, even if his man can take her girl to 
 task for being so "naughty by nature"!  After having some love affairs with 
 women who were raised with traditional values when they were girls I have 
 come to find that I do not just seek a nice girl, but a good girl.  Now, all 
 good girls ARE nice girls, but not all nice girls are good girls. 
  
 Do you have a weakness for old fashion, knee-weakening romance?  But find it 
 thrilling when such things open doors to a deeper intimacy and the heated 
 release of unbridled passion?  But still, do you also have an emotional tug 
 of war about such things, at times, between the lil devil on one shoulder 
 wanting the see-through brassieres and all they imply, and the lil angel on 
 the other shoulder saying "Why you Bad Girl!  You should be ashamed of 
 yourself!!"? 
  
 Did you grow up feeling that "good girls don't" and felt like a bad girl 
 when you did, even if you could not help but do such things?  Did that just 
 make them all the more powerful and exciting for you, even if you felt that 
 old fashion "good girl guilt" for real?  Despite being a fully realized 
 woman in the modern world, is that girl still a part of you?  Does she still 
 need to be swept off her feet by a charming man for being so adorable, so 
 she can remember how loved she truly is?  Does she need kissed by a 
 passionate man until her knees are weak for being so desirable, so she can 
 feel he "made her" give into her naked passions?  But even then, does she 
 sometimes need to be taken over the knee of a stern man for being so 
 potently naughty and spanked until she is truly sorry and willing to make up 
 for it by surrendering every drop of her passions to his capable hands, 
 mouth, heart and soul until she is spent and quivering in his gentle arms? 
 If so, we may have some things in common. 
  
 I find such traditional qualities of propriety and modesty in a nice, 
 romantic girl to be very appealing to the tenderhearted, Jimmy-Stewart-from- 
 "It's a Wonderful Life" side of a romantic man; even though I can find other 
 aspects of her to be quite stimulating when it comes to a man's passionate 
 Rhett-Butler-from-a-steamy-romance-novel side.  And I also have within me a 
 strict and commanding Victorian stepfather side that can be quite stern with 
 a girl when certain primitive fires begin to stir. 
  
 One might say I was raised progressively about all such things but was 
 converted by old fashion, good girls later on. 
  
 Do you think you ARE a "good girl"?  Perhaps so, but to what extent?  Do you 
 relate to any or all of what I am about to say? 
  
 When you actually were a girl, did you feel naughty about certain secret 
 thoughts or feel like you were a bad girl for what you did in secret under 
 the covers at night?  Does part of you still feel that it was proper that 
 you felt that way about such things, even if you have outgrown such feelings 
 now? 
  
  
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 --- SoupGate-Win32 v1.05 
  * Origin: you cannot sedate... all the things you hate (1:229/2)